Sexological Bodyworkers are somatic sex educators. I support individuals and couples to learn to direct their own erotic development, learn about their bodies, sex and sexuality, or work through sexual issues or concerns.
What are the types of reasons to book a session / sessions with a sexological bodyworker? Here is a list, just to name a few, to get you thinking of some areas you may want to explore.
Curiosity about pleasure
To feel more
To connect more
To express a greater range of sensation through the body
Lack of arousal, a decline or a change
Lack of sensation
Early ejaculation issues: learning ejaculate choice
Mindful masturbation coaching
Learn more confidence with the body
Learn confidence with genital image
Drug free sex coaching
Concerns about porn
To learn how to give / receive in sex
To explore sexual fantasies
To explore Taoist erotic bodywork
Embodied support around transition
Referral from doctor / therapist
It’s difficult to say what happens in a session, as every session is unique to the client, but there is some structure and some guidelines:
Complete confidentiality: I offer a safe and private space for you to feel comfortable, and everything we discuss and do is confidential.
There is an initial discussion on what you would like to explore during the session. This can be done with a free 20 minute consultation after a questionnaire is filled in and sent back 24 hours minimum before the consultation.
Every session is uniquely designed to fit the needs of the individual.
Every session is co-created with client and practitioner.
Client has full consent in what bodywork is done within the session.
Client can change their mind at any point during the session,in order to have full control in what they would like to happen.
Hygiene: Please shower before the session for hygiene purposes.
Follow up: After the session some further details may be sent to you via email in order for you to continue the development on your own, or to plan more sessions.
Below are some frequently asked questions, with answers.
What if I get an erection? Then get an erection! Allow it, feel it, celebrate it. There is no need to feel shame in my sessions. Erections are welcome but not necessary.
Do I have to be naked? No. Nudity is welcome, but it is your choice on what you keep on and what you take off.
Does everything involve genital work? No. Being curious about other parts of your body on how they can be connected to your arousal / genitals is also a big part of what I offer.
Can we meet before the session so I can get to know you? Occasionally I can agree to a 20 min chat , but would prefer Skype or by phone. Email me on the contact page and let me know what would suit you.
Will you be naked also? Never. Practitioner will always be clothed.
I have to state that I am not a therapist and I am not a doctor. This is important for you to know. I am someone who believes strongly in educating and assisting other people with their own personal sexual development with compassion and understanding. I believe there are different approaches to learning something new. You can watch it on YouTube, read about it, talk about it. For for me, its the actual doing that I really beginto feel I'm learning. I can read about a recipe and watch how to make the meal. It hardly means anything until I begin to put the ingredients together, then I get a better understanding. Honestly, I'm a terrible cook,but I know with changing old habits and practicing I will get better, learn some new things along the way and be able to tailor each recipe to my desire. Its the same for sexological bodywork. I believe the same through sex, through masturbation, through intimacy, through communication with our bodies.