The 3 minute game is based on two questions: how do you want me to touch you for 3 minutes? And how do you want to touch me for 3 minutes? This could also be what do you want me to do to you for 3 minutes? and what do you want to do to me for 3 minutes? This may sound like an easy game but there are a lot of different aspects about it. When you play this game you will learn to think about what you really want and to be specific about it, not only about how you want to touch someone but also how you would like them to touch you. The other aspect is that you learn to ask and give consent and you learn how to deal with the feelings and boundaries that comes with it. These aspects are really important in the human interaction and this event gives you the opportunity to try it and to practice the skills.
In the following YouTube video you see Betty Martin (the creator of this game) explain how the game works and some examples:
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